The Cycle Of Lies and Love Destroyed

Big Or Small.. little black lies or huge white ones .. hee hee
Brothers And Sisters ( preach Brother Cosmic )...
Why do we lie? Selfishness...
For instance:
Ladies, you ever had that man who was constantly dogging you about where you been, who you with, and all that jazz, but he’s laying down with every skallywag he can find ? And when you break up with his nasty ass, he gets all miserable or worse, wants to get violent ? Well that man is a liar.. And lying always means selfish..
Fellas, you ever had that chick who you loved, but found out through her friends ( and sometimes her family ) that she was doin you wrong with some Ex ?.. When you break up with the Ho (I be just calls it like it is ), she gets very remorseful and then turns nasty ( will throw all kind of affairs in your face) when that doesn’t work ? Well you see, that woman is a liar and very selfish.
But if you look close enough, the gender of the individual means nothing. People lie to get what they want. It doesn’t matter to them, that the lies make what they have meaningless.
Telling the truth is not easy. Telling the truth usually means the end of a relationship, a friendship, or maybe just your ability to control a situation.
I mean, how do you tell someone you love that there’s someone else you want to sleep / sleeping with? Is there an easy way? I say no. But until you tell the truth, you have nothing.
Do you feel that unease in your chest when you lie? Why, do you think that is? Your own body is telling you that lying is detrimental to your health.
Why is it we can lie to someone, but can be totally crushed, shattered, and hurt to find out that same someone has been lying to us? Selfishness
We lie to minimize the pain of having to deal with our own shortcomings, instead of working on our shortcomings. But you have to put your flaws “out there” in order to work on em.
If you find yourself telling lies to people, stop looking for a soulmate, companion, or whatever you call someone you know you will be LYING TO..
Work on yourself and believe me, maybe we can get rid of the “he say/ she say” scenario.
The Truth Frees.